You may have come across the meme,
”If you want to annoy someone, then repeat the same song that they don’t like. So that, the song gets stuck in their mind.”
It’s true , this works out almost all the times.
We can program other’s mind. Teachers do it daily. We can teach human beings or pets. We can relate this method to religions, communities, organizations, schools, offices, friends and families. Everything is connected internally. Each person’s act is perceived by the viewers either in different or same form. Hence, everything affects everything.
Programming someone else’s mind is beneficial to change the person for good. If someone has adopted bad habits, it is possible to change them. Yes, there are organizations to change the people. Apart from that, we can do it on a daily basis through daily conversations. Words have the ability to change the person’s thinking direction.
The same applies in curing the patient. Medicines, exercises and rest are recommended for any patient to recover. There are incurable diseases and disorders. But, there are certain diseases/disorders which are curable with long duration of treatments and therapy. Some patients give up sooner or later. Some patients do not have hopes of recovering ever. A hopeless person may fail to follow up therapies. Speaking positive thoughts with the patient can change him/her into a hopeful person. When the patient themselves are motivated by everyone, it is easier for them to take the efforts for their recovery. It is the best practice to program mind of the people suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, depression, or any mental stress because of traumatic events.
A positive atmosphere spreads the good vibes around everyone in the room. Similarly, a negative atmosphere can spread the bad vibes. If there are a few members of family or any team suffering from anxiety, then it is possible for others getting affected later. When a group of people talk negative things every day , it has the effect on a positive person. When a positive person stays around many negative people, the mind of a positive person will eventually get affected too. Not necessary for a positive person to have the same pattern of negative thoughts. But, emotionally, the person is affected to see so much of negativeness.
Manipulation is one of the negative skills of a programming mind. Manipulation can be used for good purposes. But, usually people use it for a negative aim. A person can manipulate another person by speaking negative thoughts about anyone or anything. We should always be able to make decisions and react based on our knowledge. Being manipulated by other person can have adverse consequences.
Another negative thing about programming mind is repeating the same story. When a person repeats an unpleasant story to someone almost every day, a listener begins to feel that this is own story. The one who tells the story feeds the story into the listener’s mind in such a way that it becomes the listener’s story. Unfortunately, negative stories make more impact compared to positive stories.
To heal our feelings, we need to share our secrets. It is a good thing to have someone always listening and giving advice to you. This may not work out well 100% time. When you get a habit of sharing everything about your day and thoughts on it with someone else, you let the person judge your day. There can be an exception, some people don’t judge. But, the ones who judge and analyze your day, tend to advise you. They stress on the things that may not be important for you. This leads to an overthinking mind. Another disadvantage of oversharing your secrets or thoughts is, you are not yourself anymore. You report about your life’s each moment to someone else and they decide things for you. This is not a healthy thing for your mind because it starts losing out the self- logical and self-emotional thinking power.
Programming other’s mind will work easily on those who get easily influenced. It will not work on stubborn people. Considering the people who are living with the same person consistently for a prolong time and the ones who are spending more time every day with the same person are more liable to change their mind.
To conclude, we are programmed from the very first day of our birth. We program ourselves daily by learning through the surroundings. Hence, it is possible to program anyone’s mind. We need to learn to whom we should believe. We should be capable of analyzing negative words in the form of not letting it affect our mind. Let others program you with the positive thoughts but do not let them frame a bad canvas in your mind.