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Choice between parents and life-partner

If one begins to do a survey, the result will show up the number of families which don’t support  choice of life partner still exits on a bad number.

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Parents don’t accept the life partner of their children easily. They have issues with the caste, religion, racism, salary, etc.
Dear parents, don’t give choice of love. If you give a choice to choose between you and the life partner, then you are a bad parent.

As a good parent, one will only wish for the happiness of a child. If we notice that the life partner has certain bad qualities behavior wise, then we can discuss it with our children. Remember love is blind. Children don’t easily listen to the parent’s arguments in the first conversation, hence, it is always advisable to have conversations often. Tell them what things need to be set right but don’t fight with them or give them the hard choice.

Apart from bad behavior , the rest of the things should never matter. Falling in love is not always a logical thing. It is a complete emotional relationship. People who choose the right life partner often know what’s right for them. A lack of financial support can always be fulfilled together by both partners. A culture mix up can always be adjusted and enjoyed together. Moreover, you can always support them to make their life better rather than worse by going against them.

 

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Lost In Love

Sometimes I try to write musings/poetries. Yet to polish my skills 🙂

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Amid the celebration–
dazzling fireworks and glasses of wine ,

I look around to get a glimpse of you
in the room filled with party animals.

Back in those days, I was delighted
to meet you for the first time.

We laughed on jokes, played pranks

& enjoyed every moment spending together.

People around us extolled how

we both are made for each other.

Your grandiose behaviour made me admire you more than before.

Your sweet & protective embrace
brought more happier moments for me.

It was the wonderful feeling of
divine bliss and having blessed to have you.

The ecstasy of love has itself compelled me to live each moment

carrying the beautiful smile across my face.

Few days of good days and then
all the days turned into only memories.

You absconded easily without
even giving me a last goodbye.

Unfortunately, my fate does not
want me to be with you.

Letting go off the thoughts that involves only you with me
can not be  accepted as a choice.

For few days we were more than friends
and now we are just another strangers.

I have no clue what fate has laid me to!!!

I have been contemplating puzzled assumptions of

there is something between us

or nay am fool to be lost in an unrealistic world.

Can you enlighten what relation we actually hold now???

Enlighten the darkness,  let the truth shine as modest.

Its tormenting ,every second I think of you
knowing the fact that you can never be mine.

I walked on the path that paved me the way
to the pain & agony through thorns.

Along with those never ending feeling of abandonment,
I was accustomed to live my life in this way.

Now the flames are so fierce,
it has started burning the immortal love for you in me.

Days have passed &  I am still anguishedly living
being unaware of what the destiny is holding for me…

 

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When Maya meets Aruj

Maya sits in the airport gate after finishing her second Coffee.  The flight is delayed by 2 hours. She feels there won’t be many passengers for this gate as the waiting passengers are quite less. There is a guy sitting next to next of her seat.  At the end of the row, an old beard man is reading a newspaper.

She moves her eyes here and there observing things while passing the time.
She sees a guy beside her is bending down and trying to tie the knot of shoelace often. As she observes more clearly, she realizes he has only one hand. He is unable to tie the knot with one hand.

Maya moves bit forward thinking to help him out. But, she sits back with the thought of maybe the guy won’t accept her help.  She understands that he must be knowing how to tie the knot with one hand but right now he is unable to do it. She is aware that not everyone likes to get help. Some may interpret it as sympathy. She waits for a minute.
She takes out a plucker from her bag which is kept on the next seat.

 

Maya: Excuse me!
Aruj: Yes.
Maya: Please do not take me in the wrong way but this plucker can be useful. (She tries to handover the plucker)
Aruj does not accept it.
Aruj: I did not get you. What do you mean?
Maya: I had been watching, you trying to tie the knot. I would have helped you out but you may not like it. So, here is a plucker. You can just hold the lace and put them inside the shoes from beside.
Aruj: hahaaa.. why would I put it inside? Shoelaces are supposed to be a knot. Yes, I can walk on these shoes without the knot but it would look clumsy.
Maya: Well, it won’t. You don’t have to follow the standard shoelace knot pattern.
Aru
j: But, everyone follows the same.
Maya: You don’t have to be like everyone. We don’t have to fit into something that is already standardized. We can be just the way we are comfortable in.

Aruj smiles and takes the plucker.
He uses it to put the lace inside the shoes and gives the plucker back to her.
Maya: You can keep it with you. See, it’s so simple. Why make it complicated right?

Both of them giggle.
When Aruj meets Maya, life becomes much simpler.

When Maya meets Aruj

Things To Remember:

# Not all people like to take help so always ask politely.
# Preferably, give them something to do it by themselves.
# No one needs to depend on someone for the manageable things unless it is necessary.

 

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