Photography Lovers

I always loved capturing photos. I could do it well with any device. Beginning with kodak rolls, Vga to Lumia and at last, I brought my first Nikon D5200 in the year 2017. I generally use Nikon 55-200mm lense.
I love taking Bokeh photography.


I have a Flickr account wherein I am not really much active now. Like other websites nowadays, Flickr has also come up with the benefits for premium members and that’s where free members can lose out the views on their profile. My account is free. But, through Flickr, I got a chance to get real feedback from top photographers.

The first photo that got qualified for Flickr Explore is this one which also got 10k views within a day. Something which I did not expect as I have not shared it anywhere else. The favorite likes are higher than what it shows on the public page which is not a good thing. Wish it could show real favs. Many people have the same issue on their profile.

Here is the link to this pink flower:

Pink Daisy Flower

The below pic was captured through Nokia Lumia 920.

Bokeh somehwere unnoticed in bushes

Another Bokeh through Nikon AF-S.


Can you guess what it is?
pack of reflections


Messages in the bottle





Common Man’s Demands

We don’t need hefty charges on traffic rules,

which is not affordable by a common man.

We follow rules all the time.

If we break rules, we pay.

We need developed roads and potholes.

If you break rules, we lose a precious life.

We don’t need super speed underground bullet train

short duration transport from Ahmedabad to Mumbai.

We need a proper drainage/ sewage system all over the country.

Encouragement to business industry is a good idea.

But, we don’t need around 5 supermarkets ,2 malls next to small grocery stores and vegetable markets.

Why do we have 10 plus big hospitals below the coverage of 2km,

when none of them can provide the right treatment?

We don’t need illegal practices, we need real doctors.

Why do we have many branded big pharmacy stores next to each other surrounded with small pharmacies?

We don’t need more lavishing restaurants, when there is less supply of fruits and vegetables in the market for the common man.

We don’t need more branded malls, showrooms, list of expensive clothing stores,

when we have enough of poverty line.

We don’t need selfies of cleaning trash, we need the clean roads and surroundings.

How much effort does it take to impose a mandatory water conservation methods and supply a pure drinking water supply?

When you encourage women empowerment,

Please encourage speedy justice by giving cruel penalties to the criminals.

The Untold Victims

Precaution: This post contains women’s’ struggles. If you had any traumatic experience before and don’t want to read anything related to women as a victim, please do not read it.

The Victim

The word “Victim” that used to give goosebumps to us because it’s many times a highlighted news shown in the media, is now being contemplated as a piece of stale news. Once born as a female, no matter what role you play as a person, every female has to go through lots of challenges thrown at her in normal routine life. Rape itself is a big thing and unbearable trauma. But, is the lady who did not face rape in her life is having a safe life? Not at all !!

A woman goes through many kinds of inappropriate physical abuse. Irrespective of locality and surrounding area: given several circumstances, females are not safe enough . Even a place with several people around, we cannot call it safe. It’s quite difficult for females to share such things with anyone.



While traveling in public transport vehicles, random man touches or pinches ladies. Many times men stare at women terribly  & also murmur filthy words. We come across gross men who make unethical gestures towards any women. The other co-passengers are aware of these moments, but no one bothers to take any action against such culprits. Hardly any girl takes instant action against the attacker. Since, an unexpected physical abuse naturally makes the women blank for a while and sometimes scared too. It takes time for victims to give instant reaction as whatever happens is unexpected and unbearable. Few women can react instantly. Almost all the time, these culprits are the ones who are about to get down to the nearest stop or the one who escapes easily because of crowd in a vehicle. This, in turn, makes difficult to identify the attacker.

Once I attended the seminar wherein one of the HR Manager of the leading IT company was giving the lecture on random topics. Public present at the seminar expected him to talk about the education but whatever he spoke was utterly exaggerated. One of the topics he discussed was about the cab facility and night shift jobs. Many of us have heard the kidnap/rape incidences related to girls traveling in office cabs. He was explaining why girls face those incidences. His disagreeable thoughts astonished the audience.He concluded that girls provoke themselves to such steps. He blamed girl’s clothes & girl’s independent behavior. He also mentioned some girls sometimes ask cab drivers to drop at locations apart from given house address. This indirectly allows cab drivers to plot a plan of kidnapping her & rape.
I believe it is pathetic to blame a girl. Moreover, companies must recruit good cab drivers and train them moral values.



Apart from other vehicles, is traveling by a two-wheeler safe? Not completely safe. The men and the boys on the bike or vans overtake the girls riding a bike. When she tries to escape, there are chances of she getting hurt due to high speed or they harming her in any form. Even a girl walking on the road is not safe. The bikers may attack and vans may kidnap these girls. 

There are many cases related to molestation at home, brutally beaten and killed by their own family members. Education can try to save such things to a great extent. Yes, we find some educated people doing wrong things. But, we can teach majority of educated men to do the right things.

When the girl shares similar incidences with elder people, they land up with the same pieces of advice: “Wear full-dress, it’s your mistake. You should have done something. Be a simple girl.”
It is high time, we stop blaming all girls. Not all girls have bad intentions. Similarly, we can try to bring good intentions amongst all men.

All we can do is a try to live in a safer zone as much as possible. We shall not restrict ourselves from riding or walking just because someone can do something wrong to us. Families should teach their sons to respect all women. It is not possible to educate every man regarding this, but we can try to reach out to as many men as possible. At least in this way, some part of the world will be better to live for women.

Research data proves that a way a person dresses and /or acts do not influence the rapist’s choice of victims. Every next hour new rape cases happen in the world. Sadly, more than (Approx.)  50% of rape cases are not even reported. You can find research work on this topic on Google. There are many links showing the PDF files or detailed information.

We should carry programs related to mind control for men. There is a need for change in an education system. There should be a subject or special guest lectures being arranged at every school & villages every year or after every few months. It should be related to how the girls should make them strong enough and fight against such circumstances as well as the boys must learn how to respect girls.


To know how to help the victim:


The Dark Tunnel

The Dark Tunnel

What if one day I get up and find out there is nothing to do at all?

It won’t be a day wherein I could feel happy to say, “Yeah! Nothing to do. I am free today.”

It’s a day with bleak weather- I happen to realize there is nothing else remaining for me to do.
Everything has ended. I have lost so many things. I have tried countless things. I could look back to my past clearly. The path from the past to the present has made me conclude that my life is all messy. The impenetrable darkness has gone inside my soul and there is no space left for any positive signs. I have turned into a cold-hearted person. I have no feelings for anyone. I reached that level of life, wherein I can’t let anyone else be a part of my world. I feel the world has drained from me. The evil thoughts have arisen in my mind. I can only regret the mistakes, not done by me, but done by others which led me to suffer. I could have blamed everyone around me, by now I chose not to blame anyone. Because for now, I am in a state of blaming myself for always compromising my own life. For the number of times, all my dreams shattered with no hopes further. Abided by all the surrounding rules, I could not achieve anything. Being crumpled with a stroke of bad luck, I could not get any answers for, “Why me ???”.

I often restored my hopes to start a new beginning, but my every journey landed up to “The End” board with no success. Having failed for hundreds of times, I did not feel bad for rejections and failures anymore. I don’t know what is the feeling of happiness for being successful in life. Maybe, if ever I reach a successful point, I would shed more tears by recalling the failure times. I would be more nervous and hold fear to cherish the success moment. Doubtless, I am tired and downtrodden. I could imagine brighter days on the way. Alas! With not much of a span, I find myself being involved with innumerable issues. 
Whenever someone asked me, “What’s wrong?”; I could fake smile and tell them nothing. At most, I could share one of the smallest ordinary issues. The truth holds as nothing was/is right.  I could only wish some magic to fix everything at once for all. My life did not go the way I planned in multiple ways, but at this stage I am fine. At a certain point in time, we accept that some things cannot be changed and often are out of one’s control. People who know my journey tide with hurdles; know somewhere it is okay if I stop going ahead. It is true: negativity must not become part of life, but sometimes on a practical basis: negativity wins over positivity. We have to balance the positive and negative vibes equally.



I wish I would wake up one day and realize my whole life had been a dream and I am actually a different person living a different life. Perhaps, a much better life wherein I could be me, myself !!!

I wrote this blog post to express what I felt at that moment. I was not in a depression. My feelings were based on real situations. Through this article, many people could relate to it. This post is to show how a depressed person feels. It depicts how crushed a person feels when everything goes against her/his life. We see people who lack empathy. People who do not take other’s emotions easily. People who are unable to understand someone’s emotion. We do come across the ones who will not realize what willpower it takes for going through the hurdles. I genuinely feel we should not break anyone to the extent that they lose the meaning to their life. When we see someone’s life is falling apart, we shall try to lend a hand to uplift them in order to kick start life again.

Find a reason to live



Second Marriage

When you read the title, what first thought comes to your mind or which couple crosses your mind?

                  We keep saying the world is changing. Yes, it is changing. In some countries, one can do 3-4 marriages and may not face any complications from outside. Whereas there are countries, to be precise, cultures wherein you have to think twice before getting into the second marriage plan.
                  The reasons for a second marriage do vary. Some people would like to marry to have a father/mother for their previous marriage kids. Some may marry because of their previous marriage break up or no more existence of partner. Some may do it just for the sake of any financial benefits or any third reasons.
                    Even today, I see some orthodox people are against second marriage. People in society look at the second married couple in a different way. As if they have done something wrong, something ugly. The couple may be good human beings but still, they have to face the bad perception towards them by society.  I personally know a couple who are unhappily married for 30 years + and their marriage life affected their children in a worse manner. But, they don’t take divorce and they hate the people who do second marriage too.
                      Getting into a second marriage plan itself is a bit complicated when one needs to fight with the social norms.  An individual coming across a divorced person may think a lot before getting into a relationship. It’s always good to have a background check and take a decision before the marriage. But some innocents live with the tag of “divorcee” and happen to get rejected for the second marriage for the same reason. Many a time, even if two people agree to marry, they face complication due to the obstacles brought up by their families and relatives.



                     I think we need to look at marriage same like living relationships wherein we don’t fuss more after the break up as much as we do about the marriages. The gossipers need to calm down when someone is planning for another marriage and also show empathy towards the divorcee. They are just normal people who have faced relationship issues.
                     Sometimes relationship may or may not work out. Moreover, it takes time to find the right partner. Anyone willing to be in a relationship deserves a chance to find the right partner. Of course, that should not mean dumping the previous partner in a cruel way and move on with a random person. Again these things should not happen illegally. Any marriage, be it first or second, all it requires is a real love.

Get Married-solution for everything !
What arrange marriage is holding for you in the Box ???


Like-Minded Success

Photo @rawpexel Edit Shubh

I had been always looking for someone with a like-minded person. Fortunately or unfortunately, I haven’t met anyone yet who would be of a type when I will say, “This is it”. 

One thing I learned, we can be different from our circle. Most of the time, we look for someone from the surrounding circle. But, the real need lies in the other corner of the world. We have to search in the right direction for what we need. It’s only then, we find what we want. It’s the right place for us to showcase our skills wherein it will receive the real value. It will help us improve ourselves, or say sharpen our skills.

We may expect own people to be there for us in some or other way. Very few are able to get their expected support in the way they want. Don’t be forlorn. Take a break and think again. Yes, we reach the stages that leave us high and dry. Even though you feel it is the end from all squares, then draw some other shape to your life. 

It is only possible to achieve something in a group when equal efforts are invested. It should not be only the leader’s dream. It can’t be just someone’s dream. It’s a dream which does not let anyone sleep. It pushes you hard to work, work and work. There are wide bursting ideas around your mind. You can’t think of something else other than the thing you want to make it happen. You struggle and just take every risk that brings you closer to the goal you see.

Once you embark, you can’t think of dropping it off in any circumstances. You hone different skills and polish it until it holds the pure originality that no one else can ever re-create it.

There are hurdles which make you doubt your decisions to proceed, but not all days can be good. We have to take in the bad days and keep going on our journey. When we set a goal, we can’t just sit and watch something to happen. We can’t just do very little work and believe it will happen. It’s a responsibility, rather a common sense to get down to the nitty-gritty of the present plans and future expected achievements. You should know that you need to be always prepared to take up the helm.

There comes a time, you feel like, ‘ Okay, everything is hunky-dory.’, but you don’t know what’s gonna happen next! Probably, you land up in an unexpected mess. Going through such a hotchpotch event gives you the experience and that’s how you make peace with yourself and the work you do. No matter what goes wrong or right, you will have the confidence that you will make it through with the right proficiency. Yes, you will!




The manifesting moment, when you take a circular leap or just one flip leap into the deep sea, you will love drowning into the art of your favorite work and swimming through every lap to reach a phenomenal destined island. That’s how you will know, you have created your own successful world.

To wrap up my thoughts, I have jotted down below some of the internet searched quotes/images and some written by me. All the best for your journey 🙂



What type of mindsets prevents happiness and success?
Who won’t succeed in life?


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